The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe

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thriftysugar asked: Should I accept $100 for an overnight with a POT, but have to travel to him and he's not paying for me to get there? He said he'll give me $50 a week for an allowance, and expects intimacy and 5 visits a week. I mean this sounds like a good deal, but what do you think?

UHHHH NO WONDER YOUR NAME IS THRIFTYSUGAR.

HOLY SHIT, YOU MUST BE SMOKING CRACK

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Anonymous asked: My potential SD lives about two hours from me and wants me to drive to meet him. He wants him to come over immediately and isn't interested in having a a public meeting first. Makes me feel a little bit hooker-ish. I live in an area with plenty of hotels. Should I expect or request him to come to me instead? Especially considering he's just trying to go straight to bedroom.

Don’t do this. Bad idea.

Make him drive to you first for a public meeting. This is how SB’s go missing and this is also how you begin to feel more like an escort and less like an SB (which is fine, but in the context I don’t think you want that).

xo

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I’m not in the mood to answer your questions about how to bring up allowances. I’ve answered a lot in the past and if you feel the need to ask me, look at my previous answers first.

I’m getting a little short in patience with needy wannabe sugar babies.

Also, do not tell me “I’m 16 but I’m mature for my age and I totally wanna be a sugar baby because like I can buy an ipad and be cooler than all my friends and omg” 

No.

Just no.

<3

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Falling in love and other things I’d like to forget happened.

I’ve made some really bad decisions but the worst of them was falling in love with an SD. “Work” and love should be two separate things, in most instances, and this was on of them. After a messy break up of sorts I’m back in the game and doing my best not to be jaded.

I’m trying so hard to convince myself that all this happened for a reason but no matter how I look at it… break ups fucking suck.

Hope all of you are okay and coming back to an ask box full of messages is nice.

xo

Bitchysug

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ihatesexychiches asked: If you are up to it, please elaborate on the rise to falling in love with one of your sd. Do you have mixed emotions involving thing being easier and harder at the same time? Does he know? Do you think he feels the same? I'm just curious because falling in love is a very vulnerable place to be in a very emotional balanced situation.How do you deal?

I’m going to write a post on this. It’s really emotional for me so just writing about it is difficult… I mean, I know usually I’m the kind of bitch that gets shit done pretty quickly but when it comes to this I hesitate to write about it. It’s personal and I’m not ready to share just yet.

I’ll finish the post I’m working about it in the next few days. 

Stay Tuned!

xxoo

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Anonymous asked: A tea with honey, ginger, and lemon usually helps SO much with the flu. I have a question: Do you charge the boys for meeting you the first time? It feels mean but something needs to go into paying for my dress, heels, mani/pedi, and hair!

Thank-you! I actually didn’t think of that and right now I am willing to try just about anything to make this monster subside. 

I do charge for meeting the first time! There are certain instances where I haven’t, but they are rare. For one, it takes a lot of work and money to get perfect (hair done, nails done, outfit, makeup, shoes, etc).

For two, it tends to weed out time wasters and some fakes if you insist that you should be compensated for your time immediately. 

&For three, sometimes I take off work to meet up with these men…. Why wouldn’t I charge considering I’m potentially missing out on money I could be making elsewhere?

Food for thought, I know some girls don’t, which is fine too but as a personal rule I choose to.

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