Posts tagged sugar baby questions
The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe
Sugar, spice, sarcasm, & everything in between
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I still have so many questions to answer but I’m just not feeling up to it today, guys. I’m sorry and I hope I didn’t disappoint anyone! If it’s really urgent put it in my ask box with the word urgent or emergency being first. I seriously love all of you and am so glad I decided to make this blog.
xxoo
Anonymous asked:
OMG! I might go on my first sugar date. I'm terrified though. My friend told me that I could get in legal trouble for it, though. Sugar is a relationship too!! =\
Don’t be terrified! Don’t stress, your friend is wrong.
Prostitution is illegal, sugar is not.
Sugar is having a man support you for your time and attention, it’s having someone make your life easier and SHOULD NEVER be solely about sex for money. That is not sugar, that is escorting (which is illegal in most states/places).
Dating for money is not illegal whatsoever. There’s websites like What’s Your Price that you can buy and sell first dates. There’s Seeking Arrangement, Sd4me, and a whole host of other sugar daddy websites that are perfectly legal as long as you use them correctly. If you get a message on any of those sites offering a pay for play “sugar” relationship then keep in mind that it could be a cop, although it’s unlikely.
Hope that helped calm your nerves!
xxoo
Another downside to sugar.
I’m currently sick with the flu…
Not only am I having to miss my real job, I also have to cancel sugar dates and plans… This causes me to experience loss of money from my actual job and loss of money from POTs and my SDs. So annoying.
& if you tell an important business type POT or SD you are sick with the flu, they’re probably not going to want to see you for a while because they might catch it and have to miss important meetings, trips, etc. Such a fucking hassle.
I’ve never had an SD offer to take care of me or bring me soup or anything like that. Maybe one day, but not right now… This may bother some girls but I’d rather write it off and use this time to relax, find more POTs (since I have time to network for once), and rent a lot of silly movies on my cable (if my SD won’t take care of me, at least I can make sure he pays for 40 bucks in movie rentals haha).
Feel free to ask me questions (if you tell me to private answer, I will, promise!) or say hi in my ask box!
Anonymous asked:
Also, on more curiosity stuff, how often do you sleep with your Sd's? What's that like?
Depends on the SD for both questions!
Sometimes amazing, sometimes sub par, sometimes leaves a lot to be desired.
Right now one of my SD’s is fucking amazing. Mmmmmm.
ihatesexychiches asked:
I don't want this to sound condescending, but do you consider yourself attractive? On scale 1-10 how "attractive" should one be to consider this lifestyle. Have you met girls who were less attractive but just as successful? Have you encountered a situation where you were replaced vice versa? I know you it doesn't say anywhere on your blog about being an advocate for empowering women with self esteem, but for the ones who might not have been blessed with obvious beauty; Any tips?
Yes, I consider myself attractive. If I didn’t, I wouldn’t be a sugar baby. Self confidence is one of the many important factors of being a sugar baby, if you aren’t confident you won’t be able to, for lack of a better phrase, sell yourself properly. If you aren’t confident that what you have to offer is one of the best things out there than you shouldn’t be a sugar baby! There’s no number system necessary to being a sugar baby. Know that you’re sexy/beautiful/gorgeous and make sure others know it, confidence goes a long way!
I haven’t met any sugar babies in real life, I’ve seen a few online (other profiles, tumblrs, etc) that I would say I am more attractive than but I think to gauge success is a hard thing to do. Some sugar babies will feel successful with three hundred dollars in their pockets after a night with their SD and others, like myself, will only feel comfortable with one to three thousand.
So far I haven’t encountered a situation that I know of that I’ve been replaced. More often than not I will grow tired of an SD long before he grows tired of me.
In regards to obvious beauty, nothing makes me feel more attractive than pampering myself: hair done, makeup perfect, nails done, etc.
Investing time and money into your appearance can make most girls feel beautiful!
If you need a specific tip on beauty let me know!
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