The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe

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Why is college such a miserable part of life? Everyone acts like it’s supposed to be this glorious part of your life where you party and make all these good friends and maybe it’s just me, but I feel alienated, overwhelmed, and sometimes just fucking bored. Bored with the same teachers spouting the same shit day in and day out, bored with their pompous attitudes, bored (and slightly angry) at the fact that a piece of paper costs me so much money, and bored staring out windows at a beautiful day and feeling trapped

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Thank-you, darlings,

for your support and sweet messages related to my previous post. I’m feeling slightly better, set up a few meetings for this coming week and I feel ready to get back in the game for a bit, at least. My birthday is coming up so I’m going to be asking for an all expenses paid trip or two. I need it. I think I just need to get away.

This is really random but have any of you babies had any luck with moving to another city via sugar daddy help? Was considering maybe testing the waters in the not so distant future to move for school related purposes but would like to obviously have financial support of an SD or two. Thoughts/opinions/experiences are welcome and my ask box is always open :) Let me know what ya think!

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I need to stop blowing money.

I have recently made three rich friends and when they go shopping they drop a grand or three like it’s nothing. It’s almost sickening, but I’ve been trying to keep up with them at both drinking and shopping, and neither has worked out well for me. 

I probably sound like the most irresponsible babe in the world at the moment but I can’t help it. My nerves are shot, too, I had a very awkward first date. I haven’t had a REAL first date in so long… I didn’t even know how to talk to a man without purposely trying to stroke his ego and think of the bi weekly direct deposit to my account before I had to snap myself awake and realize I’m not being paid for my time. I’m volunteering, basically. He’s picking up the tab, but I’ll be picking up my own bills if this pans out to be anything.

That scares me. Could I give up this life? Could I give it up for one person? The answer to those two questions have been no for a long, long time. What could change it, if anything? Hm. Food for thought.

I keep equating regular dating much like being an intern. Sure you’re getting experience and you’ll probably get a free meal but sometimes it feels a lot like wasting your time.

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Click click click…. and that’s the last he’ll hear of me. Another pair of over priced shoes attached to a another done up body in this over priced hotel, making their way to the door and down the flight of steps… The city air feels cool against my hot skin and I breathe in the freedom…. The freedom of being able to afford anything I want in the windows of these stores, the freedom to take no shit from a boss cracking a whip for a company that’s main concern is how to make as much money as possible. I’m not another cog in the machine, I am the machine. I am my own creation. I rub my Russian Red lips together and contemplate my new problem…. So.much.money.so.little.time.

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Anonymous asked: How do you get sugar daddies to compensate you for your time on the first meet?

I basically tell them (as nicely as possible) that I don’t want to waste my time and I expect to be compensated for taking time out of my busy schedule to meet with them. If they don’t get that hint then they are a moron and not worth your time anyway <3

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Anonymous asked: In creating a profile, how do think your page should be set up? Such as pictures,(any poses?) How to format your "about me" and even deciding a user name?

You page should be set up to give an accurate, but slightly glamorized description of yourself. Don’t just say “I’m intelligent, witty, and amazing.” because you’re going to sound full of yourself. Talk about your interests, but not any that would be turn offs.

As fast as pictures I would say post one face and one body. You can blur your face a little if you feel uncomfortable. Nothing low cut, nothing skin tight, think classy, be classy.

Deciding a user name is kind of a personal choice. Just don’t pick anything that sounds remotely provocative. So no words like baby, sexy, yummy, hot, whatever else shit you can come up with that makes you sound cheap.

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Anonymous asked: I have a couple questions. :) One is do you workout a lot or anything? I'm small, but I just feel lumpy I guess. I guess I eexpect these men to want girls looking like supermodels. And also, I've seen some SBs talking about how most of the time they don't even meet with the men, they just talk on the phone/skype and give company. I live with my sister and her children so 1) it's hard to just up and travel and 2) I don't want to risk someone knowing their adress. Should I wait till I move out?

Yes, I work out, take care of my body, eat healthy, etc. They do expect a caliber of beauty but all different body shapes can be beautiful to a man, however thin girls do have a broader selection as that is what most are seeking. I have never heard of most SBs not actually meeting the men… That doesn’t sound accurate whatsoever. The real money to be made it meeting them, integrating yourself into their life, etc. 

Do you have your own car? Most SDs will be willing to get a hotel or host at their place of residence when they feel comfortable enough with you. Some SDs will be willing to set you up with an apartment and you can use that as your meeting locale. It’s up to you whether to wait until you move out or not, but I’d say it’s more than doable if you have your own transportation and an SD willing to book a hotel. 

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