Posts tagged sugar babies
The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe
Sugar, spice, sarcasm, & everything in between
Anonymous asked:
"Nothing to lose and everything to gain," do you really think that's true? I don't mean that as a challenge, I mean it as an honest question. I'm new to the whole sugar bowl concept and world, and I have to say it's tremendously appealing. That being said, what's the general consensus about violence against women, date rape, STIs, and so on? Do you truly feel that most of the pitfalls of these relationships can be avoided by making smart, pragmatic choices? It seemed worth asking.
It’s more of an expression than anything. However, I do think if you know what you’re coming into the sugar bowl for and have realistic expectations and goals, you should be strong enough to not lose yourself and to gain a different view of the world and a variety of experiences that you would have otherwise missed out on. Violence and date rape against women happens in and out of the sugar bowl but I have experienced more and heard of more occurrences outside than in. STIs are a concern for anyone who is sexually active and obviously increases when you choose to have sex with multiple partners. I definitely think most of the pitfalls of both sugar baby relationships and nonsugar relationships can be avoided by making smart choices and I have to say that your whole question seems condescending and has a judgmental tone.
Best of luck.
I’m too grumpy to answer any questions today but I just want to say I love all of you.
xo
Anonymous asked:
Would putting it in a bank account mess with my financial aid?
Obviously.
Anonymous asked:
How do you become good at being sexy? It had to come from somewhere.... right? :O
Sexy equates to having confidence and you’ll feel sexier when you develop a love for your body. You have to remind yourself that this body is the only one you’ll get and although it’s not perfect, it’s yours and you are free to do what you want with it and look how you want. If you’re feeling down in the dumps go get a makeover at a beauty counter or buy yourself a cute outfit. Tell yourself that you are sexy, look in the mirror at your own body and believe it.
You can’t convince anyone else that you’re sexy unless you believe it yourself!
xo,
Bitchysugar
Anonymous asked:
Question. Idk if you are still a student, but I am assuming at one point you were. Should an SB stay as far away from the topic of school as possible? Does it draw too much attention to the age gap, or do they not mind hearing about it? I am just starting out and am not sure what topics are "taboo" so to speak. Thanks for all your help and wisdom!!
It depends on the guy. I normally bring it up on the first few encounters with them and if they seem interested and ask me further questions I’ll proceed to tell them more about it. I try to let them know stuff about my life because it gives them more of a well rounded girlfriend experience and I’d rather talk about my achievements in school than my family or other aspects of my personal life. Some guys like to be reminded of the age difference because it’s like “I’m the man for fucking/dating a coed.” Taboo things are more like your boyfriend (if you have one), excessive family drama and bitching about bills. Anything that dampers the mood a lot.
Hope that helps!
xo
Anonymous asked:
I keep reading on SD profiles on SA things like "I want to learn new things, try new things and experiences" etc etc. What does that actually mean? Is that code for kinky fuckery?
Sometimes it’s code for kinky fuckery and other times it’s code for I want to travel to new places but most of the time it equates to I have (or had) a boring sex life with my wife of ___ years and want to spice things up by a) having sex with you often b) having sex in other positions other than missionary c) want to fuck someone new in general
xo
Anonymous asked:
What SD web sites have you had the most success with as of lately?
I usually use Seeking Arrangement but I’m not looking at the moment. I’ve found two off of my tumblr so apparently they find me these days ;)
I’m playing a drinking game of drink every time someone asks me an obvious as fuck question and I’m six shots in.
A few of you girls should take up the blog names ThirstySugar, DesperateSugar, and BasicSugar instead of the cute shit you’ve come up with.
Shoutout to you anywayyyyy for getting me drunk!
Anonymous asked:
How can i get into the sugar bowl? Should I be nervous?
Lol.
Anonymous asked:
Hi there! I've been reading your blog and I can't seem to find this answered already so I apologize if this is redundant. I am using the website seeking arrangement. When I look at a potential SD profile for example he doesn't give a specific amount he can give like $1000-$3000 But instead says open to negotiation. Do you think that's a sign that he might not be able to spoil me the way I want? Thank you so much and I totally enjoy reading this blog. :)
Yes and no. These are the guys that are either not sure what they think is appropriate for allowance which either means: 1) they think even a grand is a lot and will offer you ridiculous, lowball amounts or 2) they are new to the sugar bowl and didn’t know what to put. In my experience, more often that not these guys are either cheap or don’t know what they’re looking for. There’s exceptions to this, which I have encountered as well but generally I think my theory is pretty sound.
xo,
Bitchysug
