You being curious isn’t a question, it’s a statement. A girl (or guy, let’s not be sexist here!) usually makes an online profile on one of the many sites geared towards sugar. However, this is not the ONLY way. It can be dangerous if you do not have a rigorous screening process and you are careless. Most girls that put themselves in danger aren’t thinking clearly and are too focused on the idea of money. Best & worst stories is another post bc I’d be writing forever and I’m not in the mood, honey. If you come off anon we can private message back and forth if you need help.

xo,

Your new favorite bitch

I shave down there every couple of days. I don’t shave there every day because of razor bumps and ingrown hairs. 

If it’s for a trip or something I’ll shave every day and moisturize immediately after I get out of the shower as a preventative measure.

I try to get AT LEAST a grand a month for allowance, plus gifts/maintenance fees (sounds like I’m referring to a car here, but I mean hair, nails, grooming, massages, etc).

The grand would be for about two to three meetings, but right now I’m getting two grand a month for three meetings. It depends on the guy: I would rather make less money with a SD I enjoy than more money with an SD I can’t stand in regards to how much he can spend/his budget. 

I am not a full-time SB, I have a job I can fall back on because I don’t like being completely dependent on a man for all my expenses so I am able to pick an SD on personality instead of solely based upon the allowance they provide.

Now that I am more experienced in the SB world, there’s no way I would hang out with, much less sleep with a creepy, old jerk that makes me feel uncomfortable or annoyed regardless of how much money is involved. 

If you have more specific questions (or based upon situation), just let me know and I can private message you if you come off anon. 

xxoo

Thank-you! I actually didn’t think of that and right now I am willing to try just about anything to make this monster subside. 

I do charge for meeting the first time! There are certain instances where I haven’t, but they are rare. For one, it takes a lot of work and money to get perfect (hair done, nails done, outfit, makeup, shoes, etc).

For two, it tends to weed out time wasters and some fakes if you insist that you should be compensated for your time immediately. 

&For three, sometimes I take off work to meet up with these men…. Why wouldn’t I charge considering I’m potentially missing out on money I could be making elsewhere?

Food for thought, I know some girls don’t, which is fine too but as a personal rule I choose to.

POT means potential sugar daddy. I’m not sure what PAT means, I’ve never used that abbreviation.

xxoo

For me, it’s more likely for my POTs to have other SBs than it is for my SDs. Although, I wouldn’t rule it out entirely. Both of my SDs travel frequently so it could be possible that they have SBs in other countries/states/whatever. I doubt it, though. 

One is incredibly fixated on me and the other just doesn’t seem like the type, but who knows! Men will be boys.