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The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe
Sugar, spice, sarcasm, & everything in between
Anonymous asked:
Hey, so i was just wondering what is a good website to sign up at. i sometimes feel that a lot of websites are bs, any input would help, Thanks!
I really like Seeking Arrangement but have tried Ashley Madison as well as sugardaddie and sdforme. I had okay luck with AM but sdforme and sugardaddie is mostly fakes and people who are looking for a high class escort at street walking prices so I wouldn’t suggest those!
xo
Anonymous asked:
"Nothing to lose and everything to gain," do you really think that's true? I don't mean that as a challenge, I mean it as an honest question. I'm new to the whole sugar bowl concept and world, and I have to say it's tremendously appealing. That being said, what's the general consensus about violence against women, date rape, STIs, and so on? Do you truly feel that most of the pitfalls of these relationships can be avoided by making smart, pragmatic choices? It seemed worth asking.
It’s more of an expression than anything. However, I do think if you know what you’re coming into the sugar bowl for and have realistic expectations and goals, you should be strong enough to not lose yourself and to gain a different view of the world and a variety of experiences that you would have otherwise missed out on. Violence and date rape against women happens in and out of the sugar bowl but I have experienced more and heard of more occurrences outside than in. STIs are a concern for anyone who is sexually active and obviously increases when you choose to have sex with multiple partners. I definitely think most of the pitfalls of both sugar baby relationships and nonsugar relationships can be avoided by making smart choices and I have to say that your whole question seems condescending and has a judgmental tone.
Best of luck.
She had me at hello.
I have been approached by women on sugar dating sites but had never been interested… Until her.
She sent me the most intelligent, coy message and I felt compelled to respond to someone with such a good sense of humor and dry wit. I’ve hooked up with girls throughout my life and engaged in a ménage à trois
or two but have never pursued anything further with a woman.
This recently changed.
Ladies, I have a sugar momma.
I’ll write more later after we’ve all had some time to digest this interesting fun fact about your favorite sugar babe (but at least you know where I’ve been lately….)
xo,
Bitchysugar
Anonymous asked:
Staying o/night with my (new) SD in a fancy hotel in my town (he lives about an hour away). He wants to have breakfast out in the morning - so that means I can't sneak out in the middle of the night. I need my makeup, toiletries, change of clothes etc. How big of a bag, what kind, do you take for overnighters, weekends away with your SDs? I mean I need alot of stuff but I don't want to scare the poor guy away with all my luggage, literally.
If you’re staying over night with someone I’d say pack a weekender bag and only bring the necessities. I pack a medium sized makeup bag with the essentials: foundation, foundation brush, blush, blush brush, bronzer, bronzer brush, a small eye palette, and lipstick & gloss. I put my necessary toiletries in the travel bottles for flights and always have a few of them stashed under my bathroom counter for impromptu getaways. I try to bring accessories and outfits that can be mixed and matched with staples like a little black dress or a black skirt.
Hope that helps!
xo
Anonymous asked:
Just out of curiosity, how much do you make a month with your SD's?
Right now I have one SD who pays me between five to seven grand a month. I’ve had multiple SDs at once and have made much more in a month than I do now, but I’m content and have undertaken a new direction in regards to my real career that doesn’t allow me the time to juggle them. I think it’s a little tacky you ask how much I make though, lol. I’m also currently in the beginning stage of a non-sugar relationship and don’t want to fuck it up.
Anonymous asked:
A POT is offering me 1500$ a week that's $6000 a month, on the conditions I remain exclusive to him and not use any protection except birth control. I don't know how to respond the offers good but I'm unsure about not using protection. Any advice ?
If you were to even give this the slightest bit of consideration you would have to go to his doctor with him for a round of STI and STD testing just as you should with any boyfriend you haven’t used protection with and with the conditions that he would be exclusive WITH YOU. This is a hard agreement because it means that you can’t have any nonsugar relationships and you’re the one giving up the most, despite him thinking he is because of the monetary side of things.
My advice is consider this with seriousness and if you chose to proceed, do so with caution and safety.
Anonymous asked:
How do you become good at being sexy? It had to come from somewhere.... right? :O
Sexy equates to having confidence and you’ll feel sexier when you develop a love for your body. You have to remind yourself that this body is the only one you’ll get and although it’s not perfect, it’s yours and you are free to do what you want with it and look how you want. If you’re feeling down in the dumps go get a makeover at a beauty counter or buy yourself a cute outfit. Tell yourself that you are sexy, look in the mirror at your own body and believe it.
You can’t convince anyone else that you’re sexy unless you believe it yourself!
xo,
Bitchysugar
Anonymous asked:
Let me just say you're awesome! Thank you for existing and doing so publicly and helping the rest of us exist. I apologize if my questions have been asked but I haven't had time to go through your blog as I just happened upon it his evening. I'm just a little curious as to your sd preferences, age and appearance wise, if you don't mind disclosing those of course. Also, I'm in need of some advice. I'm a new comer and only come across men that are looking for a more monogamous arrangement but when
Thank-you! I like them in their forties preferably but early fifties is okay, too. I’m not keen on dates with a lot older men like late fifties or sixties because that’s too much older than my parents and makes me feel weird. Appearance wise I’d like them to be at least semi attractive but I’m drawn to intellectuals so if they’re incredibly intelligent with a vast array of knowledge I make exceptions not based on looks. I didn’t get the rest of your ask, but I hope that gives you some insight.
xo
Bitchysug
Bad bitch confessional
I know that we are supposed to be strong, that we are supposed to lift our head high and walk through life in this majestic I-give-no-fucks way but sometimes, especially lately (more often than I’d like to admit), I feel a sense of defeat. It’s a new feeling but one I’ve been harboring deep within my spirit for a while now. I don’t think it’s necessarily linked to the lifestyle I live but more so to the dissatisfaction and alienation that it can bring along with it. I feel like no one understand me and it creates this tension that makes me feel like an outsider. I am surrounded by people but yet I feel all alone. I am on top of the world in my own way but I am living in my own inferno, a personal hell of sorts in another, it’s a fucked up dichotomy. I need a vacation from a vacation from a vacation. I need to find myself.
Anonymous asked:
Question. Idk if you are still a student, but I am assuming at one point you were. Should an SB stay as far away from the topic of school as possible? Does it draw too much attention to the age gap, or do they not mind hearing about it? I am just starting out and am not sure what topics are "taboo" so to speak. Thanks for all your help and wisdom!!
It depends on the guy. I normally bring it up on the first few encounters with them and if they seem interested and ask me further questions I’ll proceed to tell them more about it. I try to let them know stuff about my life because it gives them more of a well rounded girlfriend experience and I’d rather talk about my achievements in school than my family or other aspects of my personal life. Some guys like to be reminded of the age difference because it’s like “I’m the man for fucking/dating a coed.” Taboo things are more like your boyfriend (if you have one), excessive family drama and bitching about bills. Anything that dampers the mood a lot.
Hope that helps!
xo
