Posts tagged sex
Posts tagged sex
It’s more of an expression than anything. However, I do think if you know what you’re coming into the sugar bowl for and have realistic expectations and goals, you should be strong enough to not lose yourself and to gain a different view of the world and a variety of experiences that you would have otherwise missed out on. Violence and date rape against women happens in and out of the sugar bowl but I have experienced more and heard of more occurrences outside than in. STIs are a concern for anyone who is sexually active and obviously increases when you choose to have sex with multiple partners. I definitely think most of the pitfalls of both sugar baby relationships and nonsugar relationships can be avoided by making smart choices and I have to say that your whole question seems condescending and has a judgmental tone.
Best of luck.
Right now I have one SD who pays me between five to seven grand a month. I’ve had multiple SDs at once and have made much more in a month than I do now, but I’m content and have undertaken a new direction in regards to my real career that doesn’t allow me the time to juggle them. I think it’s a little tacky you ask how much I make though, lol. I’m also currently in the beginning stage of a non-sugar relationship and don’t want to fuck it up.
If you were to even give this the slightest bit of consideration you would have to go to his doctor with him for a round of STI and STD testing just as you should with any boyfriend you haven’t used protection with and with the conditions that he would be exclusive WITH YOU. This is a hard agreement because it means that you can’t have any nonsugar relationships and you’re the one giving up the most, despite him thinking he is because of the monetary side of things.
My advice is consider this with seriousness and if you chose to proceed, do so with caution and safety.
I know that we are supposed to be strong, that we are supposed to lift our head high and walk through life in this majestic I-give-no-fucks way but sometimes, especially lately (more often than I’d like to admit), I feel a sense of defeat. It’s a new feeling but one I’ve been harboring deep within my spirit for a while now. I don’t think it’s necessarily linked to the lifestyle I live but more so to the dissatisfaction and alienation that it can bring along with it. I feel like no one understand me and it creates this tension that makes me feel like an outsider. I am surrounded by people but yet I feel all alone. I am on top of the world in my own way but I am living in my own inferno, a personal hell of sorts in another, it’s a fucked up dichotomy. I need a vacation from a vacation from a vacation. I need to find myself.
Thanks, lover. It’s okay <3 Make a tumblr because I like you already.
You shouldn’t be seeing an SD. Don’t auction off your virginity to the highest bidder, that’s a very sad thing to do.
So many girls on here sell themselves short, but this is one of the worst occurrences.
These are either a sexy treat or I’m ravenously hungry and imagining them to be….
Lol, no. I have heard that is normal though!