Sexy equates to having confidence and you’ll feel sexier when you develop a love for your body. You have to remind yourself that this body is the only one you’ll get and although it’s not perfect, it’s yours and you are free to do what you want with it and look how you want. If you’re feeling down in the dumps go get a makeover at a beauty counter or buy yourself a cute outfit. Tell yourself that you are sexy, look in the mirror at your own body and believe it.

You can’t convince anyone else that you’re sexy unless you believe it yourself!

xo,

Bitchysugar

Yes and no.  These are the guys that are either not sure what they think is appropriate for allowance which either means: 1) they think even a grand is a lot and will offer you ridiculous, lowball amounts or 2) they are new to the sugar bowl and didn’t know what to put. In my experience, more often that not these guys are either cheap or don’t know what they’re looking for. There’s exceptions to this, which I have encountered as well but generally I think my theory is pretty sound.

xo,

Bitchysug

That’s what you think now from reading this.

But, if you read my profile(s) you’d think otherwise. 

&that’s why I hold all the power even though you hold all the $$$

lol

xxoo

Like everything else in this modern world most of this is done online, do a little research and make a profile on one of the sugar daddy websites. Take some classy pictures and put one to two on your profile with a description that accurately portrays who you are but also gives an air of confidence and exudes a dash of glamour. Voila, a nice profile :)

You can try free styling and meeting SDs in person but this is a little bit more tricky, although it can be more lucrative if you know where to look.

You page should be set up to give an accurate, but slightly glamorized description of yourself. Don’t just say “I’m intelligent, witty, and amazing.” because you’re going to sound full of yourself. Talk about your interests, but not any that would be turn offs.

As fast as pictures I would say post one face and one body. You can blur your face a little if you feel uncomfortable. Nothing low cut, nothing skin tight, think classy, be classy.

Deciding a user name is kind of a personal choice. Just don’t pick anything that sounds remotely provocative. So no words like baby, sexy, yummy, hot, whatever else shit you can come up with that makes you sound cheap.

Maybe you’re sending out the wrong message. I don’t know what your profile sounds like, so it makes it kind of difficult to answer this question. It could be you’re winking at the wrong guys, it could be your description, it could be your pictures. Think of it as a dating website (because, it is) and treat it as such. Seem genuine and interested in what these men have to say, don’t e-mail or talk to guys who’s profiles weird you out, and you should be fine. I can give more specific advice if you want me to help you out with your profile or if you need advice on what to say to a specific message, just inbox me off your blog (I’ll keep everything confidential) and  I’ll private answer you. 

xxoo

I’d call you a bitch but that implies that you’re on my level, which you’re not (even though I know that’s what you were aiming for with your cattiness). I don’t like clinginess, or neediness, not just in an SD but I despise in anyone. He hasn’t has saved my ass, I have my own $ which I earn at a normal job and I’m not some dumbass damsel in distress to begin with.

You don’t know my story, you know the little hint I decided to show so jumping to conclusions based on only one small part is idiotic and petty. Therapist? I am practically a therapist myself, listening to people’s trials and tribulations every day. Boundaries are blurred in an SD/SB relationship, if you were in one you might understand that. But, I sense that you’re a jealous, immature brat who quotes Drake lyrics to compensate for their own misunderstanding of the life of another. 

But, thanks for making me laugh!

xxoo