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The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe
Sugar, spice, sarcasm, & everything in between
ihatesexychiches asked:
I don't want this to sound condescending, but do you consider yourself attractive? On scale 1-10 how "attractive" should one be to consider this lifestyle. Have you met girls who were less attractive but just as successful? Have you encountered a situation where you were replaced vice versa? I know you it doesn't say anywhere on your blog about being an advocate for empowering women with self esteem, but for the ones who might not have been blessed with obvious beauty; Any tips?
Yes, I consider myself attractive. If I didn’t, I wouldn’t be a sugar baby. Self confidence is one of the many important factors of being a sugar baby, if you aren’t confident you won’t be able to, for lack of a better phrase, sell yourself properly. If you aren’t confident that what you have to offer is one of the best things out there than you shouldn’t be a sugar baby! There’s no number system necessary to being a sugar baby. Know that you’re sexy/beautiful/gorgeous and make sure others know it, confidence goes a long way!
I haven’t met any sugar babies in real life, I’ve seen a few online (other profiles, tumblrs, etc) that I would say I am more attractive than but I think to gauge success is a hard thing to do. Some sugar babies will feel successful with three hundred dollars in their pockets after a night with their SD and others, like myself, will only feel comfortable with one to three thousand.
So far I haven’t encountered a situation that I know of that I’ve been replaced. More often than not I will grow tired of an SD long before he grows tired of me.
In regards to obvious beauty, nothing makes me feel more attractive than pampering myself: hair done, makeup perfect, nails done, etc.
Investing time and money into your appearance can make most girls feel beautiful!
If you need a specific tip on beauty let me know!
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Anonymous asked:
If it's not too much... Besides having your bills paid for you, what are some of you most prized gifts you've received?
I would say specific things but if one of my friends/family members were to stumble on here it’d be pretty obvious to have all signs point to me. I’ve gotten a lot of clothing that I value, some of it was expensive but others are just really cool, unique pieces I found at locally owned boutiques from vacations with various SDs which make it memorable. I have a few designer purses I love, one in particular that is my all time favorite. I have some designer shoes that cost over 800 dollars for a pair…. Glamourous things I’ve always wanted but couldn’t afford otherwise.
I just really like gifts, I like being spoiled, I like going into a store and coming out with bags stuffed to the brim of everything I wanted… I can’t help it.
I’ve always been one of those girls that wears whatever I want and I buy things because I like them, not because they’re in style at the moment. I have my own sense of style :)
Anonymous asked:
Just starter following :). Love your blog! As a guy, I have been trying to find a Sugar Mumma for a while - it is quite the difficult! Was inspired by a lot of girl friends who had some success. You have any tips/ know any sites that are better for Sugar Baby men? (or should I just start looking for a Sugar Daddy instead :P)
Hi there, new follower :) Thank-you! I’m glad I’ve been getting some positive responses from it to combat the negative I’ve been hearing as well from the haters! I have actually heard it’s very difficult to find a sugar momma, most of the sugar mommas I’ve encountered have been looking for there first lesbian/bisexual encounter and things of that nature or are part of a sugardaddy/sugarmommy duo i.e a couple with lots of money looking to pay someone to be a third wheel. I would try Seeking Arrangement, I think you’ll have the best luck with that one.
I don’t know if you were serious or not about looking for a sugar daddy opposed to a sugar mommy but I know a few guys like yourself that actually do, as fellow sex workers would call it, “go gay for pay”. If that’s something you’d consider, or be willing to pursue, I’d say more power to you! You only live once, and who knows it could be a blast!
P.S.- If you decide to blog about your experiences, definitely let me know, I’d love to read about what it’s like to be a male sugar baby!
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