The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe

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Anonymous asked: Question. Idk if you are still a student, but I am assuming at one point you were. Should an SB stay as far away from the topic of school as possible? Does it draw too much attention to the age gap, or do they not mind hearing about it? I am just starting out and am not sure what topics are "taboo" so to speak. Thanks for all your help and wisdom!!

It depends on the guy. I normally bring it up on the first few encounters with them and if they seem interested and ask me further questions I’ll proceed to tell them more about it. I try to let them know stuff about my life because it gives them more of a well rounded girlfriend experience and I’d rather talk about my achievements in school than my family or other aspects of my personal life. Some guys like to be reminded of the age difference because it’s like “I’m the man for fucking/dating a coed.” Taboo things are more like your boyfriend (if you have one), excessive family drama and bitching about bills. Anything that dampers the mood a lot.

Hope that helps!

xo

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I am so moody today.

Went over to my SD’s house (the one I’ve had forever, not the one I fell in love with)… He doesn’t usually get on my nerves very often, but he annoyed me so much today. I don’t know if it was him talking about stocks or me having to feign interest, but the combination put me in an awful mood. When he finally left for work this was basically my reaction:

But I look like this right now so it’s okay.

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So, I checked out the sugar baby tag…

A lot of the familiar faces and names I was so used to seeing are gone now. I don’t know where you have all gone off to, but I wish you success in all you do.

But, some of you new sugar babies scare the shit out of me.

Let’s tackle a few worrisome things in order of most terrifying…

  1. Virginity is not a thing you should auction off to the highest bidder. You are worth more than that. Your body is worth more than that. The memory is worth more than that. Trust me on this one.
  2. Underage… If you are 16, you shouldn’t be dipping your toes into the sugar bowl. You should be focused on high school, graduating, and getting into college. Post graduation from four years of dedicated study or your 18th birthday - whichever comes first - feel free to start your hustle. But, before then, no. Any guy worth his salt shouldn’t be trying to get it on with a minor. Sorry, jailbait babies, I’m not a fan.
  3. To me, fur- no matter the cost - is not luxurious. But, enjoy it’s tackiness anyway, do you.
  4. Some of you need a book on grammar. If you don’t sound educated, why would an educated man want you? Education doesn’t necessarily equate to class, but it sure does help.

Those of us in the sugar bowl who are doing it the right way are looked down upon by outsiders mainly because of stereotypical sugar babies doing it the wrong way. 

There isn’t a rule book, code of ethics, or a how-to sugar baby guide… But, there are still some unwritten rules that we should all keep in mind.

Seriously, though.

Have some cla$$.

xo,

Bitchysugar

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Anonymous asked: To be a successful SB do you really think in your opinion have to be a size 0-2? I'm a size 6 but I'm losing weight and I'm almost in a four. I have a really good head on my shoulders for business but I know how men are so visual I just want to be successful. I'm humble about my looks and I have been told that I should be a model but I'm thinking not at this size so before entering into the SB world how small do I have to be in your opinion?

No. I’m not a 0-2 and I’m a sugar baby. Being a sugar baby doesn’t depend on your size, it depends on your ability to be a seductress and be sexy. Sexy doesn’t equate to size. If you have been told you’re attractive, and you FEEL (this is key) attractive, then why the hell not :)

Go for it, curvy girl. You got this.

xo & best wishes,

Bitchysugar

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Why is college such a miserable part of life? Everyone acts like it’s supposed to be this glorious part of your life where you party and make all these good friends and maybe it’s just me, but I feel alienated, overwhelmed, and sometimes just fucking bored. Bored with the same teachers spouting the same shit day in and day out, bored with their pompous attitudes, bored (and slightly angry) at the fact that a piece of paper costs me so much money, and bored staring out windows at a beautiful day and feeling trapped

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