Posts tagged money
Posts tagged money
I’ve been out of the country for the past few weeks.
Sometimes you just need a change of scenery :)
I love you all and want to thank you for letting me know my blog was being featured on Seeking Arrangement. That was nice of you!
If you want to check out the excerpt they used and haven’t seen it yet, here’s the link:
Missed you ladies.
Yes and no. I had one original SD who knows my whole life story but all the rest know only what I choose to show. I’d use Googlevoice but there may be safer ones out there, do some research
because I’m too lazy to do it for you. Cash, I wouldn’t want a check (married men, checks bounce, etc). 10k+ you’d normally get check but this is a rare instance for most SBs anyway. Married ones are a choice of morality and whatnot, I’m fine with it in most scenarios but I know many aren’t. Unhappy married men are usually easy money with less time required because they still have a wondering wife at home.
Dipping my toes in it once again. I’m like a moth to the flame in this game, it seems.
I’m kind of happy about it. I missed it a little, the expected easiness of it. The wallet feeling fuller and my bills a little lighter. It’s nice, for now.
I have a restlessness I just can’t shake and my SDs always wanting me to accompany them on trips is annoying because I’d rather travel alone or with a friend.
Anyone else have this problem? I feel really bitchy complaining about it when some people haven’t even been outside the state they live in but I can’t help that it gets on my nerves a little bit when my trip revolves somewhat around what they want to do.
I’ve also gotten a lot of messages that tell me I should be thankful for what I have etc? Some of these I’ve noticed are from new SBs and I feel a really judgmental tone. Anyone else having this problem?
Feel free to ask me questions, ladies! Some of you start your posts of with things like “Sorry to bother you” or something which is silly, I love talking to all of you.
I basically tell them (as nicely as possible) that I don’t want to waste my time and I expect to be compensated for taking time out of my busy schedule to meet with them. If they don’t get that hint then they are a moron and not worth your time anyway <3
I’m not dead! Just a mess.
Still love all you crazy bitches.
Sweetie, don’t be naive. There are plenty of fake Rolexes out there, there are plenty of BMWs that need to be repossessed, there are mansions in foreclosure and men with fake smiles and mountains of debt. Just keep that in mind.
I always try to get at least one to two hundred dollars for a first date gift. Or mention something you liked in x store that you know costs x amount. A good starting allowance depends on x amount of meetings per month for x amount of dollars. I try to get 1,000 for 1 meeting, 2,000 for two meetings usually, but have taken less for SDs I was attracted to or just generally liked as a person. Meetings don’t necessarily equate to sex, in case you were wondering.
Private message me if you need to talk specifics!
But instead I become an overly social bitch with a vengeance.
There’s all kinds of risks in sugar relationships on both sides.
Sounds like he has abandonment issues, perhaps he gave a sugar baby her allowance and she hit the road. Whether her leaving was warranted or not is beside the point, you deserve an allowance in cash or in some other form that is ok on your own terms (gift card, debit card, etc). Cash is the best way as it is untraceable for both parties.
You do not want a SD that is going to try to give you cash in inconveniencing ways. It’s going to get old fast.
Work your way into his trust and you’ll find a way into his wallet.
Warning: This guy is giving me a douchebag signal so proceed with caution.
Picture collectors are POTs that are a form of fake SDs. They are the type that will normally promise you the world (large allowance, lots of gifts, etc) but keep requesting that you send pictures, and won’t be content with just one picture or two. Some use clever tactics that charm new SBs into it, such as: “For every picture you send me, I’ll buy you a bikini.” “For every picture you send me, I’ll give you x amount of money.” “For every picture you send me I’ll give you x” Basically, a bunch of variations of the same bullshit.
Don’t by into their act, their lies. You’ll come across these fakers a lot but they’re definitely not worth your time or attention.
*Side note: There are rare instances where a man can appear to be a picture collector and be a real SD, but I’d say it’s more often the other way around.
Thank-you! I actually didn’t think of that and right now I am willing to try just about anything to make this monster subside.
I do charge for meeting the first time! There are certain instances where I haven’t, but they are rare. For one, it takes a lot of work and money to get perfect (hair done, nails done, outfit, makeup, shoes, etc).
For two, it tends to weed out time wasters and some fakes if you insist that you should be compensated for your time immediately.
&For three, sometimes I take off work to meet up with these men…. Why wouldn’t I charge considering I’m potentially missing out on money I could be making elsewhere?
Food for thought, I know some girls don’t, which is fine too but as a personal rule I choose to.