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The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe
Sugar, spice, sarcasm, & everything in between
Rules on sending me a message:
1) Do not send me messages a POT has sent you anonymously that take up more than one (TWO MAX) messages. This clogs up my ask box and makes it harder for me to respond. If you really need me to help you, make a Tumblr and ask me so I can respond privately.
2) Do not ask me what your boundaries should be, that’s entirely up to you. What you want your SD to look like, how much or little you want allowance, etc. It’s hard for me to answer these questions without knowing you and it’s a call only you can make.
3) Do not send me multiple messages if I do not respond right away asking if I’ve gotten your message. I respond to all my asks, but it does take time. I have a life, obviously. Please remember that because if I get annoyed with you, I will either a) not answer your question or b) be a real cunt to you.
4) I am here to help, but I will not answer a million questions. Please do not bombard me with a million.
I’ll add more to this later, but these things needed to be said!
xo,
Bitchysugar
Anonymous asked:
How are you feeling and did you try the tea? I'm so new at this and need to learn to be as assertive of you. Definitely will charge. How much do you recommend? And is it okay for me not to sleep with the guy?
I’m feeling a little better, still sick as a dog. I tried the tea, it helped my throat and my cough but it’s the body aches that are really getting me down. Well, I’m here to help you in any way that I possibly can and if you’d like to come off anon I can help you through private messages (I can keep it confidential, would never say anything or post anything publicly about you, promise!).
Assertiveness comes from confidence. Fake it until you make it, meaning use artificial confidence as much as you can until it becomes so engrained into you that it becomes real confidence. Look in the mirror and become comfortable with what you see, workout to improve your appearance, get a makeover, anything to help you reach real confidence!
How much do I recommend for what? First dates for me are 100-300 dollars, depending on situation. Allowance is 1,000 + minimum.
YES, it is ALWAYS okay for you to not sleep with the guy. Just because there is money involved doesn’t mean you can’t say no, but also be prepared for the relationship to develop and to eventually have sex with an SD. If you can’t stomach the idea of having sex with this man, and you can tell he eventually wants a sexual relationship (or makes it known) then chances are you should find a new SD!
Do not sleep with anyone if you do not feel comfortable doing so. EVER.
Hope that helped, and feel free to ask more questions!!
xxoo
