Posts tagged date
The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe
Sugar, spice, sarcasm, & everything in between
Anonymous asked:
What are some good date ideas for an SD to take you on? What have been your favorite dates?
Think of dream dates, what would you want a guy to do that would be too expensive to do normally? Indoor skydiving, regular skydiving, dinner on a private yacht (one of my favorites so far), dinner in Paris /walk around the city (another favorite), flying to a theme park (fun!), going to a movie premier, etc etc. Things that are amazing, once in a lifetime, make you feel like you’re alive! :)
Also, any restaurant you’ve wanted to go to but couldn’t afford!
gingersugarbaby asked:
What do you think a good starting allowance or date gift should be? I've been made an open offer to ask for what I want and he made a point to wear his Rolex on our first meeting (drinks).
Sweetie, don’t be naive. There are plenty of fake Rolexes out there, there are plenty of BMWs that need to be repossessed, there are mansions in foreclosure and men with fake smiles and mountains of debt. Just keep that in mind.
I always try to get at least one to two hundred dollars for a first date gift. Or mention something you liked in x store that you know costs x amount. A good starting allowance depends on x amount of meetings per month for x amount of dollars. I try to get 1,000 for 1 meeting, 2,000 for two meetings usually, but have taken less for SDs I was attracted to or just generally liked as a person. Meetings don’t necessarily equate to sex, in case you were wondering.
Private message me if you need to talk specifics!
xxoo
Anonymous asked:
Hello! So I know you have POTs and SDs but do you have consistent boyfriends outside of the SB world? And if so do you let them know about your POTs and SDs? Oh, and get well soon! :)
Hello there, lover.
No boyfriend outside of the SB world for me.
Although, I have done it previously. For me, I’d rather live in the SB world completely when it comes to dating. Having something outside it can be messy, and not only that but a daunting task in itself. I already feel as if I live two separate lives, why add an unnecessary third?
However, I feel that I am biased when answering this question as I am in love with one of my SDs…
But that’s another story entirely!
Also, thank-you! Feeling much better now.
xxoo
Anonymous asked:
OMG! I might go on my first sugar date. I'm terrified though. My friend told me that I could get in legal trouble for it, though. Sugar is a relationship too!! =\
Don’t be terrified! Don’t stress, your friend is wrong.
Prostitution is illegal, sugar is not.
Sugar is having a man support you for your time and attention, it’s having someone make your life easier and SHOULD NEVER be solely about sex for money. That is not sugar, that is escorting (which is illegal in most states/places).
Dating for money is not illegal whatsoever. There’s websites like What’s Your Price that you can buy and sell first dates. There’s Seeking Arrangement, Sd4me, and a whole host of other sugar daddy websites that are perfectly legal as long as you use them correctly. If you get a message on any of those sites offering a pay for play “sugar” relationship then keep in mind that it could be a cop, although it’s unlikely.
Hope that helped calm your nerves!
xxoo
