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The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe
Sugar, spice, sarcasm, & everything in between
Anonymous asked:
I feel like I'm asking for a menu or wine list here, but what are your typical requests in terms of allowances etc. I read your equation of x amount of money for x number of meetings + gifts and expenses. What would your typical x values be. I recently started getting messages from SDs on seeking arrangements and am really new to the idea of negotiating a fair price. Thanks for the help. :)
I try to get AT LEAST a grand a month for allowance, plus gifts/maintenance fees (sounds like I’m referring to a car here, but I mean hair, nails, grooming, massages, etc).
The grand would be for about two to three meetings, but right now I’m getting two grand a month for three meetings. It depends on the guy: I would rather make less money with a SD I enjoy than more money with an SD I can’t stand in regards to how much he can spend/his budget.
I am not a full-time SB, I have a job I can fall back on because I don’t like being completely dependent on a man for all my expenses so I am able to pick an SD on personality instead of solely based upon the allowance they provide.
Now that I am more experienced in the SB world, there’s no way I would hang out with, much less sleep with a creepy, old jerk that makes me feel uncomfortable or annoyed regardless of how much money is involved.
If you have more specific questions (or based upon situation), just let me know and I can private message you if you come off anon.
xxoo
