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The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe
Sugar, spice, sarcasm, & everything in between
Back in the sugar game,
Dipping my toes in it once again. I’m like a moth to the flame in this game, it seems.
I’m kind of happy about it. I missed it a little, the expected easiness of it. The wallet feeling fuller and my bills a little lighter. It’s nice, for now.
I have a restlessness I just can’t shake and my SDs always wanting me to accompany them on trips is annoying because I’d rather travel alone or with a friend.
Anyone else have this problem? I feel really bitchy complaining about it when some people haven’t even been outside the state they live in but I can’t help that it gets on my nerves a little bit when my trip revolves somewhat around what they want to do.
I’ve also gotten a lot of messages that tell me I should be thankful for what I have etc? Some of these I’ve noticed are from new SBs and I feel a really judgmental tone. Anyone else having this problem?
Feel free to ask me questions, ladies! Some of you start your posts of with things like “Sorry to bother you” or something which is silly, I love talking to all of you.
xo,
Bitchysug
gingersugarbaby asked:
What do you think a good starting allowance or date gift should be? I've been made an open offer to ask for what I want and he made a point to wear his Rolex on our first meeting (drinks).
Sweetie, don’t be naive. There are plenty of fake Rolexes out there, there are plenty of BMWs that need to be repossessed, there are mansions in foreclosure and men with fake smiles and mountains of debt. Just keep that in mind.
I always try to get at least one to two hundred dollars for a first date gift. Or mention something you liked in x store that you know costs x amount. A good starting allowance depends on x amount of meetings per month for x amount of dollars. I try to get 1,000 for 1 meeting, 2,000 for two meetings usually, but have taken less for SDs I was attracted to or just generally liked as a person. Meetings don’t necessarily equate to sex, in case you were wondering.
Private message me if you need to talk specifics!
xxoo
Anonymous asked:
Ahhh I need you to come back lol! So Is 1500 a month good for 3weekends?? Not including shopping and travel?
It’s an alight allowance. I would personally try to get a little more considering in my eyes weekends cost a little extra… If you choose to give ALL your weekends to an SD each month then you have to think about how much time you’re going to be missing out to spend with normal people who only have weekends off. I try to do one weekend a month and then multiple (usually two) weekly dates…
If you’re okay with giving up all your weekends then I would say it’s fine!
Anonymous asked:
POT SD doesn't want to hand me my allowance in cash because "the risk is too high"??
There’s all kinds of risks in sugar relationships on both sides.
Sounds like he has abandonment issues, perhaps he gave a sugar baby her allowance and she hit the road. Whether her leaving was warranted or not is beside the point, you deserve an allowance in cash or in some other form that is ok on your own terms (gift card, debit card, etc). Cash is the best way as it is untraceable for both parties.
You do not want a SD that is going to try to give you cash in inconveniencing ways. It’s going to get old fast.
Work your way into his trust and you’ll find a way into his wallet.
Warning: This guy is giving me a douchebag signal so proceed with caution.
Anonymous asked:
I feel like I'm asking for a menu or wine list here, but what are your typical requests in terms of allowances etc. I read your equation of x amount of money for x number of meetings + gifts and expenses. What would your typical x values be. I recently started getting messages from SDs on seeking arrangements and am really new to the idea of negotiating a fair price. Thanks for the help. :)
I try to get AT LEAST a grand a month for allowance, plus gifts/maintenance fees (sounds like I’m referring to a car here, but I mean hair, nails, grooming, massages, etc).
The grand would be for about two to three meetings, but right now I’m getting two grand a month for three meetings. It depends on the guy: I would rather make less money with a SD I enjoy than more money with an SD I can’t stand in regards to how much he can spend/his budget.
I am not a full-time SB, I have a job I can fall back on because I don’t like being completely dependent on a man for all my expenses so I am able to pick an SD on personality instead of solely based upon the allowance they provide.
Now that I am more experienced in the SB world, there’s no way I would hang out with, much less sleep with a creepy, old jerk that makes me feel uncomfortable or annoyed regardless of how much money is involved.
If you have more specific questions (or based upon situation), just let me know and I can private message you if you come off anon.
xxoo
Anonymous asked:
You make me want to be a sugar baby! I just read through your Tumblr and want to know more about it. What is an "allowance" and how do you get this? What is a POT? Are you ever afraid that your info or picture will be used for something other than sending to your SD? (like posted online and then employers see or something?)
Ha, it’s not all fun, games, and glamour, baby, believe me.
But, I’m glad my life intrigues you, that a glimpse into my world makes you want a taste.
An allowance is money given to you in a sugar relationship that is usually talked about at the beginning of a relationship and an agreement is made for either per meet or per month. Basically, you put a $ amount on how much your time is worth. I usually request x amount of money for x amount of times per month + gifts + expenses paid (gas to get to and from dates, extra money for outfits/shoes/nails/etc).
A POT is a potential sugar daddy, one you’re working with to set up an arrangement and agree upon an amount that sounds reasonable to both of you. Also, could mean one you’ve set an amount with but haven’t met yet, or have only gone on a date or two with.
Yes, but I’ve never had a vindictive SD, one that did anything on purpose to harm me in anyway. I am also careful with who I send pictures to, I know all about picture collectors (one of the various fake SDs a sugar baby will come across in this little bowl of ours). I have never sent a nude photo or anything of that variety to an SD so at least that’s one less worry I have!
If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask.
<3
