You probably need to a) implement a better screening process & b) depending on where you live expand your search (if you live in a small town you won’t find the best SDs ever because they generally live in more densely populated cities due to good jobs). An ideal profile is one that basically “sells” your personality. Think of yourself as a brand and market yourself towards the ideal daddy you’re looking for. Tweak your about me! I wish I could read it to give you a direct response.