I’m feeling a little better, still sick as a dog. I tried the tea, it helped my throat and my cough but it’s the body aches that are really getting me down. Well, I’m here to help you in any way that I possibly can and if you’d like to come off anon I can help you through private messages (I can keep it confidential, would never say anything or post anything publicly about you, promise!).
Assertiveness comes from confidence. Fake it until you make it, meaning use artificial confidence as much as you can until it becomes so engrained into you that it becomes real confidence. Look in the mirror and become comfortable with what you see, workout to improve your appearance, get a makeover, anything to help you reach real confidence!
How much do I recommend for what? First dates for me are 100-300 dollars, depending on situation. Allowance is 1,000 + minimum.
YES, it is ALWAYS okay for you to not sleep with the guy. Just because there is money involved doesn’t mean you can’t say no, but also be prepared for the relationship to develop and to eventually have sex with an SD. If you can’t stomach the idea of having sex with this man, and you can tell he eventually wants a sexual relationship (or makes it known) then chances are you should find a new SD!
Do not sleep with anyone if you do not feel comfortable doing so. EVER.
Hope that helped, and feel free to ask more questions!!