The Confessions of a Bitchy Sugar Babe

Sugar, spice, sarcasm, & everything in between

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Anonymous asked: One: Have you ever had a SD with whom you never had any sexual contact? Two: What, in your experience, was the extent of your most low maintenance or least involved SD/SB relationship?

One: Yes

Two: Define low maintenance. Does least involved mean we didn’t fuck at every meeting? Or does it mean he didn’t text me all the time? It varies just like any other relationship you’ll have. People are weird.

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Anonymous asked: Hey, so I'm new on SA and I was wondering how it works. I've gotten a couple messages from men who are interested in me and wanted to meet up. I was wondering, how do they pay you? I mean, do you start getting payments on the first meet up or do you meet up, and decide whether or not they like you, and THEN pay?

#basicbitchquestion

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Anonymous asked: I'm new to the sugar bowl and love your blog! When asked if you had this type of relationship before, is it better to say yes and seem like you know what you are doing and worth, or be honest and say no? I don't want to get taken advantage of but don't want to seem like I do this all the time either (want them to feel special).

Thanks, sugar. When I was a young little sugar babe I always said I had because I actually had been in one lolz but even if I hadn’t, I would have said I had. Make up a cute story and go along with it. Say you dated a friend’s dad and he ended up paying your bills or a hot professor with tenure. Sometimes fudging the truth a bit is fun and a good thing.

xo

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Anonymous asked: "Nothing to lose and everything to gain," do you really think that's true? I don't mean that as a challenge, I mean it as an honest question. I'm new to the whole sugar bowl concept and world, and I have to say it's tremendously appealing. That being said, what's the general consensus about violence against women, date rape, STIs, and so on? Do you truly feel that most of the pitfalls of these relationships can be avoided by making smart, pragmatic choices? It seemed worth asking.

It’s more of an expression than anything. However, I do think if you know what you’re coming into the sugar bowl for and have realistic expectations and goals, you should be strong enough to not lose yourself and to gain a different view of the world and a variety of experiences that you would have otherwise missed out on. Violence and date rape against women happens in and out of the sugar bowl but I have experienced more and heard of more occurrences outside than in. STIs are a concern for anyone who is sexually active and obviously increases when you choose to have sex with multiple partners. I definitely think most of the pitfalls of both sugar baby relationships and nonsugar relationships can be avoided by making smart choices and I have to say that your whole question seems condescending and has a judgmental tone.

Best of luck.

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amsterdamsugar asked: I just wanted to thank you for this blog. It's very reassuring to know that there are girls in the sugar bowl that know what they are worth. Please keep doing what you are doing right now. And keep us updated on the sugar momma thing, I'm extremely intrigued by this. I wish you all the best, x

Thanks, lover!

xo

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She had me at hello.

I have been approached by women on sugar dating sites but had never been interested… Until her.

She sent me the most intelligent, coy message and I felt compelled to respond to someone with such a good sense of humor and dry wit. I’ve hooked up with girls throughout my life and engaged in a ménage à trois 
or two but have never pursued anything further with a woman. 

This recently changed.

Ladies, I have a sugar momma.


I’ll write more later after we’ve all had some time to digest this interesting fun fact about your favorite sugar babe (but at least you know where I’ve been lately….)

xo,

Bitchysugar

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